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I find myself yet again drawn back to this sight. Its been 2 years im trying to move on.I have lost my spark he took me with him when he suicided.I never got depressed at the time I couldnt I had a very young baby. so why cant I find me? How long does it take I dont want to hear it takes time. I had a reading done he came through saying how he is unhappy with what he did,how sorry he is with the way he left, he watches over me and sees how unhappy I am. How should I I feel about that. He wasnt happy on this earth he still isnt happy. How long until something clicks and says its ok you can get on with life now when does this ache go.Im so confused right now I dont know what to think but i do know one thing,I will never leave this earth no matter how tough it gets I have three beautiful little girls that depend on me. Does that me weak or strong I dont know i cant judge other people I just know how I feel dead just like he is. He wants me to open my heart and allow myslef to be loved. Why, to only have it ripped out again!!!!... When a person kills themselves do they have rights to come and tell you how to live. I would love to hear from wives girlfriends mums us the ones left behind. I just dont know how to get myslef out of this rut. Help......

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In memory of Dave. Still missed after all these years.

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My memories and thoughts of Daniel are more vivid now. I struggle every day. I say that I am fine, but really I am not. Suicide is such a tragedy of life that we as a people tend to veer away from. My 15 year old daughter is trying to help a friend of hers who lost someone very special through suicide. Just trying to talk or more so to listen to her friend. Awareness is a good thing when it comes to 'SUICIDE' Those of us who have lost a loved one need to talk. The White Wreath site has helped myself, family, relatives, and friends tremendously. Suicide is not an easy escape from a troubled life, it is simply the only way that a suicide victim feels that they can make things better...Daniel had two beautiful children that he idolised with every heartbeat...they could not keep him here... So thankyou Fanita...look at what your boy Jason, through his own suicide has acheived...what a champion he is... Thanks Jason.

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Great site, very informative. I am both a sibling survivor & student trying to create awareness of the trauma left behind on survivors. I wish all your readers the strength to enjoy their life!

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What a fantastic idea. Thank you for creating an organisation that deals with this tragic and taboo subject. Mental Health government recognition and help still has a long way to go in this country but through organisations such as yours we may get the message across. It is encouraging to know that there are people out there that understand the impact of mental illness and suicide on individuals and families. Once again, thank you.

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Hi My name is Melissa I have Lost 2 brothers and a cousin to suicide. After a knock at the door late one night 2 police officers informed me my younger brother had hanged himself in his home. I was devastated. Within 2 years My cousin had hanged her self after a long battle with depression within months the day after My birthday I get a phone call informing Me My older brother had hanged himself in his back yard on my birthday. I cant begin to understand the pain they were feeling all I know is I'm left with the question Why? After a recent visit to a police station I came across your pamphlet I believe everything happens for a reason and I am so glad I found people who understand how I feel.