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I thank God I stumbled upon this. I believe I am a person with BPD who has been putting someone I love through much of what you described. I am able to see my own behavior and want to do everything in my power to change it. I do not want to lose this person and I am grateful that so many non-BPDs do stick with their partners who are doing everything they can to make things right. Thank you for your story.

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I just read your letter to your ex (BP)I just read my life for the past 10 years. I can't believe how exact most of your experiences were to mine. I actually cried at times. It's so great to know I'm not alone. It's so hard to describe some of the BP behavior to family and friends. This would be a great letter for them to read. I filed divorce one month ago and the courts forced him to move out last week. He was refusing to leave. We have two beautiful young children. Unfortunately, he will never be out of my life completely. And I will always need to protect our kids from his behavior. Thanks Again!!!

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I'm currently in a relationship with a woman with Borderline Personally Disorder. I love her so immensely & can feel it reciprocated in every way, what an awesome feeling, but I too seem to be living my life trying to maker her happy in everyway possible. I know her happiness is not totally in my control, but I do have a barring on it. She is the most sensual & sexually women that I have ever meet in my life! I find her to be the most beautiful, intelligent, caring woman in the world! Heads turn when she walks into a room. She has this ora about her, everyone she meets likes her. From the kid at the gas station to our local bank president, she leaves an impression on all walks of life. When I met her (online) she had 10 months of sobriety. She has caused me to have my own sobriety. OMFG!! I sometime feel I worship this woman. At times she says things that turn me upside down, & I wonder, where the hell did that came from?? But I’m so supportive of her & all she wants to do as she is with me & all I do. We packed up and moved 925 miles from where we meet in New England to NC, in only a few months time, we have grown so close to one another. We share everything in our lives with each other. We are so open & honest, no one walks on “egg shells” in our home. Unlike some BLP’s, She is well aware of her illness, she sees a doctor & takes her med's every day, we also attend AA meetings together. We share are passion for ridding our (Ducati) sport bikes. I’m currently copping with our life together & her being BIsexual. don’t get me wrong, it’s not fun & games all the time, but with a little bit of understanding & med’s, things can be cool. People with BLP can live in relatively very healthy, loving relationships. So I guess I’m trying to say, there is a way to work all the bad out of your relationship & be happy together, but it will take both of you to do this! Good luck to all! Jeffrey Charlotte NC

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I am currently in a relationship with a young woman infected with BPD. I love her dearly and seem to live my life trying to maker her happy. But I do not know what Vicky I will ever get, sometimes I have the most beatiful woman in the world who I worship and the next the most explosive hateful person, but apparantly I deserve what ever she says or does. Your letter touched me and brought tears to my eyes. i am currently trying to cope with our life together, but I do not know how much longer I can hang onin our relaionship. It is just good to know that I am not alone

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been there